feat: production deploy (Fly + R2) + frame controls and picker glow

Deploy:
- Multi-stage Dockerfile (shadow-cljs release → Python+ffmpeg runtime), fly.toml
  (one machine, scale-to-zero, SQLite on a volume), .dockerignore, DEPLOY.md
- Same-origin release build: api-port defaults "9001" for dev, "" in release
  (no CORS in prod)
- env-driven settings (SECRET_KEY/DEBUG/ALLOWED_HOSTS/DB_PATH/CSRF), WhiteNoise
  serving static + the SPA, R2 (S3-compatible) media storage when R2_* is set
- thumbnails reworked storage-agnostic: download clip, ffmpeg select-pass, upload
  tiles via default_storage (R2 in prod, disk in dev)
- pin channels/daphne; add whitenoise/django-storages/boto3

UI:
- frame step buttons flanking play (disabled at timeline bounds)
- Add-annotation button moved into the toolbar, made prominent
- picker mode pulses a 1-bit glow on clips / frame readout / (while linking)
  annotation bars; linking an annotation bar inserts a timeline link

Co-Authored-By: Claude Opus 4.8 <noreply@anthropic.com>

.dockerignore

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+.git
+**/.venv
+**/node_modules
+**/.shadow-cljs
+**/target
+tl/resources/public/js/compiled
+**/__pycache__/
+db.sqlite3
+media/
+staticfiles/
+*.mp4
+*.pdf
+*.log
+*.mbtree
+thinking.org
+.DS_Store